‘who do the killers even make music for’ dads and small-town gays who like to drive around at sunset wondering if they’re the only person in the world next question
Being an assertive introvert is so wild. Do you need a group leader? Sign me up. Want me to give a presentation? Sure, let me just get my cards. Want to take me to a party on a Saturday night? No way in hell.
how come when people talk about musicians who are secretly ancient forest deities they never mention fucking ENYA shes the original gentle witch of the forest ive been listening to her my whole life and i couldnt tell you a single thing about her as a person other than i presume she lives in the woods and just emerges every so often and somehow manages to perfectly capture the feeling of walking through the woods with dappled sunlight on your face and then immediately retreats to the fae realm she came from
Enya and Loreena McKennitt are two very specific kinds of ancient forest spirits and Hozier owes much of his bog boy self to him whether he knows it or not.
they prepared us for him. And also Enya lives in a fucking castle
RuPaul says: “If you can’t love yourself, how the hell
you gonna love somebody else?” Jesus said: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”
Both suggest that self-love is what makes us human: you cannot love others
without loving yourself. Which also means that we must cultivate love as a
private and personal practice before we can extend love to others. To love
yourself, you must know yourself. And to know yourself, you must love yourself.
Love then is a sublime and universal understanding of self and of others. Love
is a discipline of one’s own self-consciousness. Love is beautiful. Love is
just. It must endure, it must evolve, it must expand, it must be born-again.
We have other very clear descriptions of love : “Love is
patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It
does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it
keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the
truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love
never fails.”
If loving others means loving and knowing yourself, then
the failure to love is a failure to be oneself, a failure to be human; an
inexcusable and unforgivable crime, and an offense to your humanity. It’s no
secret that human history is an incriminating record at times entirely absent
of love. We divide and conquer, disenfranchise, enslave, ostracize, oppress,
debase, diminish, destroy, and utterly annihilate on the basis of superficial
distinctions among us. I wish I could reasonably account for the motivations.
Money? Greed? Power? Political and religious entitlement? Ego-mania?
How about self-loathing?
The serpent seduced Adam and Eve into eating the fruit
on the basis of a hypothetical divine intention: “For God knows that when you
eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good
and evil.” After they ate the fruit,
“the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so
they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves.”
This seems to suggest that self-consciousness
(awareness) is linked to two concepts: justice and shame. If Adam and Eve were
living in harmony before knowing jurisprudence, then eating the fruit and
knowing the difference between good and evil broke the spell.
The result: shame. The consequence: division—from God
and from each other. They are cast out of the garden and cursed. The resulting
histories as revealed in the traditions of Judaism and Christianity (and Game
of Thrones, etc.) are not a happy ending. Instead the story of humanity is
fraught with disobedience, violence, deception, bloodshed, failure, foolishness
and folly. The story didn’t end well for Adam and Even. It doesn’t end well for
humanity either.
This knowledge of good and evil and subsequent division and shame is one of the
great mysteries of humankind, and an unresolvable contradiction of being human.
We are made in God’s image, but we suffer the incongruity of not being God at
all: as (if) God, but not of God. Knowledge is prone to power and power is
prone to corruption and corruption is prone to the inevitability of chaos
(entropy).
On this planet, we have been granted the distinction of
greater consciousness, which grants us greater privilege, power, and
stewardship over the natural world around us.
What have we to show for it?
Shame.
It’s astounding how much of our world still continues to
teach us to feel shame. For the color of our skin. For our poverty. For our
wealth. For our education. For our religion. For our privilege. For our special
need. For our sexuality. For being naked in a garden.
How do we break this pattern?
Love.
My sense is that with knowledge and power, Adam and Eve
must be born-again, through love, to a new way of seeing, living, and
believing, in order to learn to love themselves in fullness—their bodies, each
other, the world around them, the entire universe—in order to begin the great
stewardship of being human again.
This is our calling as well: to be human again. To have
awareness without shame, we must undo everything the world has told us about
our worth. We must go back to the beginning. We must be born again. We must be,
and know, and love ourselves.
“Be beautiful. Be yourself.”
“If you can accept your body, then you have a chance to
see your body as your new home. You can rest in your body, settle in, relax,
feel joy and ease. If you don’t accept your body and your mind, you can’t be at
home with yourself. You have to accept yourself as you are. This is a very
important practice. As you practice building a home in yourself, you become
more and more beautiful.” —Thich Nhay Hanh
Jesus said, “A new commandment I give you: Love one
another as I have loved you.” His love was touch, healing, instruction,
service, compassion, forgiveness, acceptance, and, ultimately, self-sacrifice,
an act which illuminates profoundly on the laws of self-love and self-worth.
“You have value.”
Why else would he have bothered if it didn’t cost him
everything? We are made valuable because of the sacrifice of love.
And so this is our duty at every moment. To love without
compromise and without equivocation. To give it our all, to the end, until we
have nothing left to give.
The message here isn’t very deep.
So why does it feel so impossible?
We are called to do one simple thing called love.
We need to try harder. Do the work.
My song is love. My prayer is peace.
My head is full of
questions but my heart is full of love!
